Encouragement
Posted: March 20, 2010Children takes after their care takers as models. They imitate them, copy their actions, learn from them and even registered their care takers’ action into their memory bands. Many times, they very sensitive to their environment around them. We as adults have often forgotten that they are children and tends to treat them like adults. This is a fault that we usually made again and again.When we treat the children as adults, we do not use as many encouragements in our conversations and actions. We tend not to express it out but assume they will know and read our thoughts. This is not what the children wants.Children wants encouragements especially from those care takers they trust. They want a “good job done ” as a praise. ” You are a star and fantastic job !” It is very nature that humans wants a phrase or word of encouragement. It is even more obvious in the cases of dealing with children.Thus, please do not forget to praise your child or children. Do not be stingy over praises to them. In fact, the more often you praise your child, the more confident will he be. Self - esteem can be boasted and they will excel better when praises are given.
